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作者: 陶&陶    时间: 2003-1-7 13:17:54     标题: 续---不孤独的人是可耻的

清醒的人是孤独的



    很久不曾动笔为真实的自己写文章了。是因为生活为杂乱的事情所充斥,没有了孤独的空间。

    没有了孤独,因此对生活也就没有了思索和总结,没有了回顾和探索,生命所有的冲动就会陷入一种寂灭状态,生活陷入一种可怕的固定程式——这是现代生活的通病。

    我为自己没有感觉的活着而感到羞愧难当,我热切地怀念着逝去的孤独,那种感觉弥足珍贵。它能让生命展开“细弱蚊足”的敏锐触角,感触到春天飘落的一滴细雨的欢喜、夏天田间青草草间的悲伤、秋天落叶梧桐的失望以及冬日里漫天飘雪的悲凉。基于生命之上的种种冲动由此开始伸展,生命因而显得朝气蓬勃。

    而孤独就成为固定生活程式中救赎灵魂的方式。灵魂独立的人在每天的固定生活里总能够找出孤独的时间来进行思考,他们每一刻都用心去感受孤独,就像在赶路的间歇抬头看清自己前进的方向一样;而混混噩噩的大众放弃孤独和痛苦,将自己浸泡在温暖甜蜜的日常生活里让自己沉醉。因此,孤独是区别独立者和盲从者的试金石。

    在人群的喧嚣处独自孤僻,在都市的灯红酒绿纸醉金迷中独自孤独,在杂乱无章的工作中独自孤独,在个人寂寞的时候独自孤独。孤独是解脱,是跨越和超脱,要随时随地的孤独。

    孤独并不需要一个独立的时间和空间,它可以单独存在。无论在喧嚣的人群当中,在一个人独处的寂寞空间还是在和人的交流当中,只要需要思考的空间,你都需要孤独。

    孤独是一味良药,可以在内心受伤的时候孤独;孤独是一种肯定,可以在成功欣喜若狂的时候孤独;孤独是一种支撑,可以在困苦受阻的时候孤独……若要在与生活正面碰撞的时候寻找感觉,就要学会随时随地的孤独。

    我想我需要做出这种选择,因为我还存在写作的冲动,总要不断的去感受生活的悲喜才行。或许孤独过后还会出现下笔成文一落千行的感觉,写出什么惊世之作也未为可知。退一步讲,即便没有找到生活的感觉从此不再捉笔为文也没有什么不妥,在生命的空间里我总不会因为没有孤独,感受不到生命的细微变化而从此遗恨。

        


      我会终身咀嚼孤独的滋味。
作者: 粗口成章    时间: 2003-1-7 13:27:29

孤独的人不一定可耻
可耻的人不一定孤独
作者: rockh    时间: 2003-1-8 00:01:58

枪花有两首歌,novenber rain和Estranged,写孤独写都得很好,是我最喜欢的歌,推荐下载听一下
作者: roisky    时间: 2003-1-8 11:35:10

November rain还不错。
下载地址如下:
http://music.ty.sx.cn/music/_private/new/november%20rain.mp3
作者: roisky    时间: 2003-1-8 11:37:09

歌词:
November Rain

When I look into your eyes I can see a love restrained
But darlin' when I hold you, don't you know I feel the same

'Cause nothin' lasts forever and we both know hearts can change
And it's hard to hold a candle in the cold November rain

We've been through this such a long long time
Just tryin' to kill the pain, oh yeah

But lovers always come and lovers always go
An no one's really sure who's lettin' go today
Walking away

If we could take the time to lay it on the line
I could rest my head, just knowin' that you were mine
All mine

So if you want to love me then darlin' don't refrain
Or I'll just end up walkin' in the cold November rain

Do you need some time, on your own
Do you need some time, all alone
Everybody needs some time on their own
Don't you know you need some time, all alone

I know it's hard to keep an open heart
When even friends seem out to harm you
But if you could heal a broken heart
Wouldn't time be out to charm you

Sometimes I need some time, on my own
Sometimes I need some time, all alone
Everybody needs some time on their own
Don't you know you need some time, all alone

And when your fears subside and shadows still remain
I know that you can love me when there's no one left to blame
So never mind the darkness, we still can find a way
'Cause nothin' lasts forever even cold November rain

Don't ya think that you need somebody
Don't ya think that you need someone
Everybody needs somebody
You're not the only one
You're not the only one

Don't ya think that you need somebody
Don't ya think that you need someone
Everybody needs somebody
You're not the only one
You're not the only one
作者: 谢嗨馨    时间: 2003-1-8 11:46:21     标题: 孤独最可怕也是最美的

我是一个孤独的人,我尝过孤独的滋味。
有时觉得孤独令人感到好可怕的时候,因为感到无助和无夸
有时觉得孤独令人感到最美的时候,因为它让你觉得清醒和享受





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